Randy's memorial service was yesterday. I was not able to attend, though I really would have liked to. From the moment I heard that he had left us, I was subconciously preparing his eulogy. I gave the eulogies at Hilarie's and Dad's funerals, and in doing so, felt that I was able to give one final tribute "for the road". My mother was able to attend the service and meet Randy's wife, as well as see Mom Parker again. I don't know how many years it had been since they last saw each other, but, like Randy and me, they have known each other for about 44 years. I was glad that Mom went, not only to pay her respects, but to offer mine as well by proxy. I needn't have worried about the eulogy. From what I hear, some excerpts from my previous posts regarding Randy were read aloud during the service. I am deeply honored to have had my thoughts related to others that also loved Randy. I will carry that honor proudly in my heart for the remainder of my earthly days.
"Goodbye" has always sounded so "final" and "permanent" to me. I have always preferred to say "So Long", because to me, it sounds like there will always be another chance to get together; I say "So Long" because I know that we will run into each other again someday.
Randy was laid to rest today, November 29, 2012, in Pensacola, Florida. He was interred in Barrancas National Cemetery. I stated in an earlier post that I never got to say "Goodbye" to Randy. I just optimistically assumed that he would beat his affliction and Life would continue unabated. I was half-right, anyway. Life will go on, and I will carry his memory with me far beyond this life. I salute you, "Ensign Parker". Thank you for your service. Thank you for being my friend. Until we meet again, Randy, I wish you Peace.
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